What was it like to be a teenage samurai?

A lone samurai sits by the water, holding a katana, silhouetted against a massive full moon.
An illustration of a young, teenage samurai. © History Skills

The teenage years are typically a time to explore, make mistakes, and learn from them. For the young samurai, mistakes could mean disgrace or death.

 

Once he underwent his coming-of-age ceremony, he stepped into adulthood with no gradual transition; he was suddenly given the duties of loyalty and service in combat.

 

The expectations placed on him left little space for carefree youth, as every lesson and every action prepared him for a future on the battlefield. 

When children began training to become warriors

A teenage samurai would likely have been born into a samurai family, as the status was largely hereditary.

 

Young boys were trained for a life of military service and loyalty to their lord (daimyō).

 

By the time they reached their early to mid-teens, most often between 12 and 16, they would be considered old enough to begin more structured military and ethical training.

 

This was known as genpuku, a coming-of-age ceremony where a boy officially became an adult and could take on responsibilities as a warrior.

 

During this ceremony, he would receive an adult hairstyle, adopt a new name, and sometimes gain the right to carry the two swords known as daishō

Life for these young samurai was strict and heavily focused on discipline. They were trained daily in martial arts such as archery (kyūdo), swordsmanship (kenjutsu), and horseback riding, as well as in the use of the spear (yari).

 

They practiced strategy, sometimes studied Chinese classics on warfare and learned to read and write.

 

Their education included Confucian ethics, Zen Buddhism, and bushidō, the samurai code that emphasised loyalty and honour grounded in self-discipline.

 

In fact, bushidō ideals influenced how they thought about death, duty, and service to their lord, under which they were taught to value honour even above their own life. 

A traditional Japanese ink drawing depicts a group of samurai and commoners near a wooden gate and a tree. Two horses stand nearby, saddled.
Two Young Samurai. (c. 1680). MET Museum, Item No. JP807. Public Domain. Source: https://www.metmuseum.org/art/collection/search/37251

A teenage samurai's daily routine

Teen samurai were also expected to serve in their lord’s household, sometimes as attendants or pages, where they could observe courtly manners, learn about political dealings, and slowly build relationships with other warriors.

 

They might perform tasks such as delivering messages, assisting in ceremonies, or preparing armour for their seniors.

 

These years were both about military skill and social training, how to act in ways that were loyal and respectful and that showed honour. 

However, life was not just training. Many samurai boys read classical Chinese texts like The Analects of Confucius and Japanese works such as The Tale of Genji.

 

They were often encouraged to write waka poetry, practice calligraphy, and study painting or the tea ceremony, because cultural skills were seen as an essential part of a warrior’s education. 

A traditional Japanese ukiyo-e print depicts a woman in a red kimono serving tea to a seated samurai dressed in black.
Osen Waiting on a Young Samurai. (c. 1770). MET Museum, Item No. JP2445. Public Domain. Source: https://www.metmuseum.org/art/collection/search/40991

How they became adults and full warriors

Importantly, teenage samurai could be called to battle, particularly in the Sengoku era of constant warfare in the fifteenth and sixteenth centuries.

 

Boys in their mid-to-late teens might be required to take part in fighting, though command at that age was unusual and was reserved for rare cases.

 

Uesugi Kenshin, for example, began his military duties in his mid-teens when he defended a castle at age fifteen, before he rose to greater importance as an adult leader.

 

Death in battle was seen as glorious if it was in service to one’s lord, and a teen samurai would be expected to show bravery and self-control in life-or-death situations. 

For many, adolescence ended quickly because marriage could occur in the late teens, especially for those from powerful families.

 

Marriage was usually arranged to strengthen alliances between samurai families, securing political power and property rather than affection or romance.